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The Grief Recovery Method

An Action-Based Program
Discovery and Recovery 

The Definition

Simply defined, grief is the normal and natural reaction to significant emotional loss of any kind. While we never compare losses, any list would include death and divorce as obvious painful losses. Our list also includes many other losses, such as moving, loss of childhood, loss of health, loss of trust, pet loss, and unmet hopes, dreams, and expectations. 

The range of emotions associated with grief is as varied as there are people and personalities. There is no list of feelings that would adequately describe one person's emotions, much less an entire society. Grief is individual and unique. As every relationship is unique, so are the feelings and thoughts each person will have about the relationship that has been altered by death, divorce, or for other reasons.

The Problem

While grief is normal and natural, most of the information passed on within our society about dealing with grief is not normal, natural, or helpful. Grief is the emotional response to loss, but most of the information we have learned about dealing with loss, is intellectual.

The majority of incorrect ideas about dealing with loss can be summed up in six myths which are so common that nearly everyone recognizes them. Most people have never questioned whether or not they are valid. An example of this misinformation is best described below with the common myth that “time heals all wounds.” 

Just looking at the myth that "time heals" creates the idea that a person just has to wait and they will feel better. We have known people who had waited 10, 20, 30, and 40 years, and still didn't feel better. More often than not, they would tell you that not only had time "not" healed them, but that it had compounded the pain. The other five myths carry equally unhelpful messages.

The Solution

Recovery from loss is accomplished by discovering and completing all of the undelivered communications that accrue in our relationships. We are all advised to "Let Go," and "Move On," after losses of all kinds. Most of us would do that if we knew how.

Completion of pain caused by loss is what allows us to let go and move on. It is almost impossible to move on without first taking a series of actions that lead to completion. Before taking the actions to complete, it is important to look at and often dismiss some of the ideas or myths that we have tried to use with loss, but are not working.

Meet Jodi, a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist with a deep passion for helping people heal from significant loss of any kind.

Jodi uses The Grief Recovery Method® to help clients deal with grief and loss. The uniqueness of the this method is that it can be applied to any loss, past or present, and it offers a comprehensive set of tools that enables people to unseal their grief, piece by piece.

“The Grief Recovery Method changed my perspective 360 degrees in knowing that not only can you survive grief, but you can grow exponentially from it if you are committed to doing the work.”

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